Zuma with one of his wives |
President Zuma dancing at one of his weddings |
In many African countries, polygamy is legally practiced, accepted and embraced. A number of heads of state openly practice polygamy.
President Zuma with his wives |
For instance, President Jacob Zuma of South Africa (aka JZ) has been married five times and has 20 children. President Zuma considers himself a traditionalist and makes no apologies for practicing polygamy.
Reed Dance |
Queen Nothando Dube |
Masai women |
Arguments for Polygamy:
There are various arguments given for this form of marital practice. They range from trying to accommodate a gender imbalance, where there are more females than males due to natural and un-natural causes, to economic benefits for the women. One recent argument that is being used as a justification by Christian religious leaders is that some of God's finest men (e.g. Moses, David, Solomon) were polygamists. These "men of God" are their role models!
In Southern Africa elders also use polygamy to warn young men that they could lose out on love if they do not behave. "In order to win a girl, you must be a good boy," said one elder. "Responsible young men become responsible husbands".
I do not see how this is an argument for polygamy, but there you have it.
The gender imbalance has been refuted as holding no water and is considered archaic.
Next segment we look at the economic argument. For the most part is makes some sense. Look out for the next posting.
Resources:
Vote Polygamy
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Bare-Breasted Virgins...
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people fear what they do not no. Many women in first world countries are divorced many children have no fathers. In america stay home dads is starting to happen why because women are sigle rising children alone boys learn to be women and that is a problem. Polygamy can be a good solution to get boys as men in the days to come. Monogamy is good too if dedicated.
ReplyDeleteChristianity God used Many prophets who had more than one wife(Abraham)etc. But the readers of the bible say having more than one wife is a sin. Well at the same time they say God will never use sinfull people to pass on his message contradiction because that will make all holy people not in favour. Other thing that the church and the state has accepted are not of God for example gay marriage, singers,common laws and more execept polygamy. God's instractions or things are not accepted mostly because people are blind spiritualy. More single moms turn up every day especialy in black communities in America. If you have to get more than one woman make sure you have means (money) to support them and the kids that is also goes to polygamous relationships. some are blessed more and some less. humans are mad to rule over the earth but we are distroying our salves and our women and kids. African wake up and love your wives.
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